Friends who have used dating sites say there’s not much point signing up for e

Friends who have used dating sites say there’s not much point signing up for e

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Yeah, she actually seems really happy with the idea. I was having some banter with her about her profile and bigging her up, she seemed to like it.

Essentially the idea is just you may overlook person xyz but they might be a great person. So, let’s help her write a profile that highlights her qualities better than she has and let’s we what happens. Of course she could just say nope, that guy doesn’t float my boat, fair enough, we tried!

My wife is a safeguarding social worker, so we’re fully aware of how bad some ‘relationships’ can be – unfortunately something she deals with on a daily basis.

This is the concept behind the “My Single Friend” site – the friend has to agree and you write a testimonial about them. I don’t have any experience with it but maybe you get a more rounded picture of the individual.

This is the concept behind the “My Single Friend” site – the friend has to agree and you write a testimonial about them. I don’t have any experience with it but maybe you get a more rounded picture of the individual.

Blmey, that’s a blast from the past, about 12 years ago some work colleagues were trying to set me up on there! (more…)

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Four Bad Ideas that Make Latter-day Saint Dating Stressful

Four Bad Ideas that Make Latter-day Saint Dating Stressful

Let me take you with me for a minute into a Relief Society meeting recently held in a BYU singles ward. My husband Scot and I were teaching and we asked a question that everybody wanted to answer. The young women were clamoring to be called on and the answers spilled out quickly.

We asked them what is most stressful to you in your current life-and almost to a person, they said dating and boys. Then we went on. They exploded with answers.

“Being in a singles ward sometimes feels like a meat competing with everyone for the boy’s attention. I am always wondering if I look good enough or am what boys would want. It makes me feel like I’m always on the line and I have to second guess myself to fit into what the boys would find attractive.”

This idea puts so much weight on dating, that people avoid it all together, until they find a person that they think might fill that bill

“I feel like I have to look and say and do everything just right to get a date, and if I do, I am self-conscious that I won’t get asked out again unless I live up to his idea of what a girl should be like. It makes it hard to be natural.”

“It is difficult to get to know boys. If I talk to a boy as a friend, he thinks I am flirting with him hoping he will ask me out.”

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